This is from a paper I wrote for my Human Sexuality class last fall. The most marks that were knocked off of it were based on my over-reliance on John Davies as a source, and I figure I could probably use some of William Glasser’s work as additional reference, but the fact is that there just isn’t much out there on this view, since it is not a very popular one – a lot of people base their careers (or adversities) off of what I’m warning against. My hope is in the very least that people pay more attention the complexity of this issue rather than oversimplify.
We live in a highly addicted society. There are drug addicts, smoking addicts, gambling addicts, alcoholics, workaholics, shopaholics, et cetera. Ever since Carnes wrote his book Out of the Shadows in 1991, it seems like sexual addiction is everywhere. Western society is highly and intensely sexual after all, but exactly how accurate is it to attribute repetitious sexual behavior to external factors, as if the person involved had no choice otherwise? Continue reading